Process Objective: To help you identity and resolve doubt in life situations. Life Coach:Keandre Curry (Contact me)
Currently, are you doubtful about something?
To doubt is to be concerned about the status or outcome of a situation. Currently, you may be having concerns about your friendship or relationship, or the stability of your health. Also, it could be something else, like your job or overcoming legal battles. Even said, regardless if it's big or small, let's identify and resolve doubts that you have in your situation.
Before the resolve for your doubt can be apprehended, let's consider how long this doubt has bothered you. If this doubt occurred:
Recently: Pinpoint the situation that put you in this predicament. Is there something that you can do to fix the situation? Are you able to commit to change for the better of this situation?
Over 1 year: Pinpoint the reason(s) that allowed you to let the doubt continue for so long. Did you put in effort? Did your effort work? Are you afraid to lose your life or foundation?
Now, think: are the reasons that you pinpointed worth the doubt? Most likely they are. There is purpose beyond doubt, in which you should not ignore. Emotionally, ending relationships/marriages, friendships, business ventures, or other situations that you put effort into is difficult. However, you must not allow hope to mislead you.
The resolve for your situation may differ from others, however based on Steps 1-3 please consider what makes sense for you.
Empower your best effort; or
Life isn't perfect, neither is people. Thus, if your belief overpowers your doubts, put your best efforts into the situation. This is the best choice to make, when you know you can give better effort than before.
End it for the better
You have given your best effort into the situation, but there is no signs of positive, or consistent progress? Then, end it for the better. Emotionally, this is a tough choice to make, but long-term it will make sense. Just because you give up, doesn't mean you're wrong for it.