Process Objective: To help you identity whether you are straight or gay. Life Coach:Keandre Curry (Contact me)
Are you sexually confused?
Being sexually confused can be frustrating, but you aren't alone. At this point in your life, you want answers to explain your sexual feelings. These feelings could be for men, women, or both (which is confusing you). Although you are confused, do not think that these feelings are wrong. Simply, you are enticed by what you like-- regardless of what other people think.
In the blank space below circle (or write on paper) which of the following statements you agree with:
(A) Athletic bodies are sexy. (B) Slim/petite bodies are hot. (C) I like to be submissive. (D) I am aggressive/like to be in control. (E) Man on man porn turns me on. (F) I like seeing pictures of females.
Your mind details what you think about things, which in response can explain your feelings. At this moment, we're about to understand your answers from Step 2.
If you circled letters B, D, and F this means you are mainly attracted to females. This is often referred to as being heterosexual (or straight). You prefer females, because you are appealed to be in control and the protector.
If you circled letters A, C, and E this means you are mainly attracted to males. Considered as being homosexual (or gay), masculine traits entice you. In certain situations, you may like feminine men, depending on your preference to be in control (or not).
If you circle more than four of the six statements, you are bi-sexual. Not only does masculinity attract you, but feminism turns you on. Usually, in this case, you are attracted to one gender more than the other. However, if you are addicted to sex, this is evident of your appeal to both genders.
Congratulations on making it to Step 4! This means that you're less confused than you were during Step 1. As situations do vary, please contact me if needed, however being gay is often from your natural hormones--not solely a choice--as homophobic people say. Love yourself, because you deserve to be happy! In the midst, don't forget to use protection and have fun!