SOMETIMES PEOPLE HURT US
Feeling hurt by someone that you love and care for is painful. Most words cannot describe how angry you are, but it's time to move on. The pain that you've faced in your life, are experiences that you don't want to repeat. Think of this predicament as one that you don't ever want to be in again. Think of this predicament as pain, that you don't ever want to feel again. Forgiving someone who has hurt and betrayed you is possible, but are you ready?
PROCESS WHAT CAUSED YOU TO BE HURT
The first step to forgiving someone who has hurt and betrayed you, is the will to forgive. Secondly, identify what caused you to get hurt. In this step, you'll understand who you are and also your contribution into your own pain. That was painful to say, but it happens sometimes; We cause our own doom.
Please read the following questions aloud and see how many "yes" are the answer.
Yes, situations vary, however negative signs are often apparent. Choosing to ignore the truth, will often become our regret.
Yes, you were hurt and betrayed by someone that you loved. However, you loved him/her, but they didn't love you. From this point forward, only believe in someone's actions, rather than their words.
FORGIVE WITHOUT AN APOLOGY
Forgiving someone that hurt and betrayed you, is purposeful to your well-being. Moving on gives you another chance at love and trust. What happened in your previous relationship or friendship is over. Most times you won't receive an apology, and if you do it'll be, "If I hurt you, I'm sorry."
That's not an apology and it should encourage you to believe: you deserve better.
You do not deserve anyone that cannot love, appreciate, or respect you.
FORGET ABOUT WISHFUL THINKING
Wishful Thinking is the wishing or imagining something would happen that isn't exactly realistic. In times where you are wishful thinking, remember how it feels to be hurt and angry. The truth and the obvious can help prevent any pain and regret. Before you can forgive who hurt you, you must forgive yourself of all wishful thinking.
To Self: I am sorry for putting you through this horrible fairy-tale.