There are things in our life that have meaning, then there are things that do not. Am I right? The truth is there, but most of the time, we don't know what is suppose to be apart of our life and what isn't. And the things that we think should be, should not be. That goes with people, as well. Let's say you are with a person for many, many years, thinking that because you love him/her, that person should be apart of your life. Sorry, but you are just caught up.
Love traps all of us at some point or later, and it's not until we are slapped numerous times by the reality of the situation and our friends that it's not meant to be. And that it's going to end, soon. The ironic thing is 99.9 percent of the time, it has already ended. Yes, I know, love plays with our emotions way too much. However, at the end of the day you'll know if something or someone is suppose to be in your life. How? Because, there is a different vibe, a different feeling being presented to and felt by you.
The greater the difference, the better.
Going through so many things and people just to find what you want and need is an difficult journey, but when you think about it, at the end it's all worth it. Every yell, every tear, every sad night. Don't keep anyone or anything in your life, especially if you know in the back of your mind that it's not going to work. Personally, I have made this mistake so many times; Holding on, hoping for change, and it never came.
If you ask me, love is a good thing, but it's real tricky. If you don't know how to deal with the roll-coaster of love, don't bother with it at all. Live the single life, until your ready for the commitment, and all its pros and cons.