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That dreadful guy: is that you?
Sports are everything, to us men. And, If we are privelleged to, we got to
have a room just for watching sports with the boys. There's nothing wrong with that, especially when our partners are always finding ways to interrupt the fun. From talking on the phone, washing dishes, to traffic in-and-out of the door, there is nothing better than a room with silence. Well at least, when the game is not on. We are men, who need our personal time, just as our partners do. That's true. However, women know just the right time to get their personal time, not us. We wait until the most important part of our day to get down-time, when we shouldn't. It's a big mistake that we all make. Get what you have to get done, then go chill and watch the game. If your child needs to be taken somewhere, take her. If she needs a nap, make sure she takes it. Do your job as the father, not just as the husband. When you remember that sentence alone, your ears will get plenty of unusual relief. Most of the time, it's not about doing what she wants you to do, but doing what you are suppose to do. There's a big difference. At some point in your life, you should have realized that it's best to do what your suppose to do, instead of being told. Be the boss of your life. Be the boss of yourself. When you know that you need to do something, just do it. I know those dreadful feelings are easy to fall into, but either way you gone have to do it, or face everlasting consequences. Ones in which we feel are too harsh, but in reality, is just how it is. Bro, take ownership of your life. Handle your business. Not just today, but every day. If you have children, lead by example on how decisions should be made. Show them that there will be many things that they wont want to do, but will have to. And tell them why that is so. Same goes for those of you have siblings and nephews: Lead by example. We shouldn't have to depend on anyone to tell how to live our lives, nor how we should be the role model for the young males that look up to us. We can't be a role model, if we aren't doing the good and working to do the great. That's just part of being a man. For men by men
#1 What are our heads always up our a**?
This answer can vary, as this does not apply to all men. The number one reason is because men hate being told what to do. Even asked to do something. That's hard to say, but man it's true. I suggest you get your head straight, and take upon your duties as a man. You don't have a choice, as you think you do. Need life coaching? #2 Is it normal to want abs, even if you are not fat? This is a good question, because men have self-esteem issues too. Especially with our bodies. We try to compete with other guys with attractive figures. So, yes it is normal to want abs, as they are the new sexy today. As long as you are not overweight, take pride in your body, from your face-down. |
about the guide
The Being a Man Guide is a magazine-styled newsletter focused solely on the current issues and topics that matter to young men.
With a growing number of young men being murdered, imprisoned and dropping out of high school, the Guide aims to encourage positive personal decisions, promote responsibility, and teach the fundamentals of life and character skills that it takes to excel as a man in today's society.
Through positivity and education, Keandre Curry hopes to give young men another reason to focus on earning degrees, living positive lifestyles and contributing to society in all measures.
With a growing number of young men being murdered, imprisoned and dropping out of high school, the Guide aims to encourage positive personal decisions, promote responsibility, and teach the fundamentals of life and character skills that it takes to excel as a man in today's society.
Through positivity and education, Keandre Curry hopes to give young men another reason to focus on earning degrees, living positive lifestyles and contributing to society in all measures.
